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Anna,
arguements are not what is important. Why should they bother you as long as
you know what`s true? Why argue with people who don`t even listen? I
wouldn`t start the conversation myself when I`m AROUND THOSE PEOPLE, and I
would ignore THEIR remarks if THEY start the topic. When they see you`re not
easily driven by the subject, their behaviour and even attitude might start
to change. I know it works! Good luck!
----- Original Message -----
From: "L. Bird" <pkeets@hotmail.com>
To: <thewho@igtc.com>
Sent: Sunday, March 02, 2003 5:56 AM
Subject: Re: pete jokes: my views


> I don't know your dad and brother or your family situation, but I would
> suspect this argument is over something besides Pete's innocence or guilt.
> It sounds like your dad and brother have found something great to beat you
> over the head with, and they're busily doing it.  This is why they're not
> interested in looking at the facts or listening to the music.
>
> To counter their arguments, you should listen to their intent instead of
> what they're saying.  Your counter should be to ask something like "Why
are
> you trying to tear down my heroes?" or "Why are you trying to use this
> against me?"  BTW, I promise you these types of questions won't make them
> happy.
>
> ;)
> keets
>
>
> >He admitted he doesn't care about Pete and says he's
> >just some over the hill has-been, despite the
> >massively successful summer tour.  He said there's
> >always a market for anything, even aging rock stars.
> >Then he mentioned there are some strange and
> >suspicious things in songs he's written.  He uses
> >themes of lonely abused children because that's what
> >happened to him!  It's extremely arrogant for someone
> >who isn't even a fan and who doesn't even care to read
> >a different side of the story to proclaim Pete as
> >guilty just because the media said so initially.  What
> >is this, some massive conspiracy and cover-up where
> >every single thing Pete has done, even ADB and raising
> >millions for charities, is all done to cover up being
> >a paedophile?  This man has been my favourite member
> >of the band since 6 February 1994 (just had my 9th
> >anniversary three weeks ago), and I think I'd know by
> >now if he were that sick and calculating and
> >diabolical!
>
>
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