In a message dated 9/28/2003 12:08:48 PM Pacific Daylight Time, kevinandt@xxxxxxxxx writes: Jo, maybe, just maybe, it's that some have seen the mountain top, and don't wish to re-visit the valley. Mark and Kevin: Look at it this way: If your lover dies, the best lover you ever had, would you give up sex forever, just because that lover is gone? Jo